Surviving Pain from the Past

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Surviving Pain from the Past

“And Joseph called the name of the firstborn Manasseh: For God [said he] hath made me forget all my toil, and all my Father’s house.” (Genesis 41:51 – AKJV)

Pain from the past can kill joy for the present, and smother hope for the future.

I know without knowing them that many people are living miserable lives because of an injustice done to them in the past, a tragedy they can’t forget, or a slight they can’t forgive.

It is impossible to list all that may bring us pain from the past; what pains one person may not pain another. Multitudes suffer some form of depression preventing them from living productive and fulfilling lives.

I am not blaming these people; not one of us knows what our reaction will be to any number of circumstances that may afflict us. We don’t know what incident in the past may cripple our ability to live life to the fullest.

I am in full sympathy with those who are in such a condition, but I want to offer them hope. Few have suffered the hatred and injustice that Joseph suffered. He was hated by his brothers. Most of them wanted to kill him because of their jealousy. He was sold as a slave, accused of sexual harassment, spent years in jail, and only eventually found recognition and a platform of influence and usefulness.

Through it all Joseph never faltered; he never allowed past injustice to poison his outlook or dim his vision of what God would do in his life. He was diligent in every situation he found himself in, and gave himself fully to the tasks immediately before him.

How did he do this? Was he some kind of superman the rest of us have no hope of living up to? No, he was an ordinary man with an extraordinary God. He kept on trusting against all odds. That is all he had – faith in God.

Someone says, “It can’t be that simple. There must be more to it than that.” There isn’t. That’s it. Faith in God, nothing more.

No matter what pains you have suffered from the past I won’t refer you to a psychologist or subject you to psychoanalysis. I’ll just give you a four word prescription: “Have faith in God.”

You can mock my advice. You can say it is an over simplification. No matter. It worked for Joseph. It has worked for multitudes since, and it has worked for me.

At last Joseph had a testimony to God’s faithfulness that could not be gainsaid or denied: “For God [said he] hath made me forget all my toil, and all my Father’s house.”

If Joseph were here to give you advice of how to survive the pains of the past, I am certain it would be the same as mine – “Have faith in God.”

Bad Memory*

(c) 17th May 1992 – by Christopher Shennan)

“And Joseph called the name of the firstborn Manasseh: For God [said he] hath made me forget all my toil, and all my Father’s house.” (Genesis 41:51 – AKJV)

God has made my memory fade

In terms of grief I’ve known;

So that the pain of ancient hurt

Won’t make me ever prone

To evil tides of bitterness

That seek some men alone

God has brought His present power

To overwhelm the past.

His present Peace; the soul’s increase

To strip away the mask

Behind which blessing hid—

But recognized at last

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Figure 20 from “The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals.” Image by Guillaume Duchenne. Image is in the public domain.